For most people, the phrase "charming person" is associated with something very pleasant, sincere and sweet. And this is partly true. Beauty and charm are not identical concepts at all. True charm is born where there is a place of sincerity.
Even an ugly person can be extremely charming. And this is not about appearance, but a special energy that works wonders. You can learn this, but more often charm is an exclusive natural feature of a person.
So, if you want as many people as possible to admire you and say more kind and good words behind your back, start with kindness. As the saying goes: "sow what is reasonable, good, eternal."
Psychologists identify several personality traits that certainly increase the level of personal charm. This is what is given to us by nature, upbringing, education and life experience. Many of us walk our personal path to excellence through experience and self-discovery. To become even more interesting and better, you need to develop yourself in different directions.
You will definitely be on the white list of charming people.
- If you keep and behave naturally. Just always know how to distinguish rudeness from sincerity. Some of your qualities do not have to be demonstrated. Learn to be restrained.
- Be a good listener. This is always encouraged, as people feel sincerity and the opinion of the interested interlocutor is important to them. Try to look him in the eye.
- You will be attentive to other people's questions and problems. Of course, you do not need to be exploited as a "vest", just show your personal involvement and this will be enough to create a good impression of you.
- Always express your sincere approval: no need for false ratings and reviews.
- If you start complaining about life and your fate, then do it without fanaticism, because negativity often scares people off, and, as a rule, people try to limit communication with such an individual.
- Joke in moderation and not evil: a fresh wave of light, warmth and positiveness unambiguously dilutes even the most heated situation.
- Know how to admit your mistakes, and note strangers to yourself, without reproaching your opponent's actions.
- Do not accumulate resentment in yourself: the ability to compromise is always welcome. Long-term plans for revenge should not be hatched.
- Be kind and sympathetic to others: believe me, kindness is not in the last place on the list of the best human qualities.
There is no need to compare yourself with others, this is a big mistake. After all, there are no good or bad people. These images live only in our fantasies. We all sometimes break down, get angry, and there are good reasons for this of a different nature.
Improve yourself. And if they turn to you for help, distinguishing them from other colleagues, girlfriends or friends, then you passed the strength test successfully.
