There is a widespread belief that if a guy and a girl broke up, then the relationship can no longer be glued. And this is not far from the truth, but the desire to resurrect, return the former relationship with the girl crept into your head and you want to start all over again. OK!
So, what needs to be done to translate the words "Come on, goodbye" into the process of developing new and vibrant relationships. Several easy ways.
In fact, it is possible that you are living with memories and thus escape from reality. Think about whether you need to renew the relationship. How are you feeling now? Revisit your former relationship, maybe turn the page and life will change.
First you need to answer your questions:
- 1. Who was the initiator of the gap?
- 2. For what reason, the relationship must be renewed:
- a) Are you afraid to be left alone?
- b) Are you afraid to build a relationship with a new girlfriend?
- c) Are you bored without her?
- d) Do you have a strong passion for her?
- e) Psychological dependence?
- g) Are you jealous of her?
- H) Do you want to legalize your relationship with her because you love?
If you answered yes to most of the questions, then read the following tips, it is possible that your feelings relate to the situation "Today and forever."
What to do to get a relationship back with a girl
Each girl needs her own approach, and the reasons for parting may be different. What to do? Wait for everything to work out on its own or end the relationship forever?
If you feel that you have to put up with it, you have to do something with this desire now! So that in your life there will be more achievements and less disappointments.
We must admit that the methods described below are general, and you need to choose your own, based on your situation.
1. Learn to be direct about your feelings and ask for another chance.
“Is it really enough to just talk about your feelings to get the girl back,” you ask? No, but this is the first step to achieve clarity between you. The bottom line is that many girls love with their ears, so you need to make an appointment, buy flowers that she loves, come up, call her by name, voice your proposal to make peace, apologize for previously made mistakes and talk about your feelings. You will have to put in a lot of effort, perseverance and not give empty promises if you want to re-establish a close relationship.
2. Become an active creator of future relationships
You may have had a calm, routine relationship that is exhausting. The essence of this method is to give the ex-girlfriend a portion of new, fresh impressions. In short, surprise her! Make a plan of your decisive actions for the day so that it will definitely be a surprise.
For example, on Monday - take advantage of home delivery of flowers through a courier. On Tuesday, buy her a very coveted gift, place it in a pretty package to generate additional interest. On Wednesday, write her a VKontakte message or an original SMS, etc.
Asking for forgiveness, in this case, will be an excellent tool for restoring trust, plus everyday surprises will show your interest.
3. Work on yourself, make you jealous
This method is the complete opposite of the previous ones. Often, a guy initially, when establishing a relationship, tries to please the girl in everything, makes her a goddess, becomes jealous, fulfills all her whims and desires. Forgetting that a woman needs a real strong man who knows what he is striving for, does not whine, does not complain, knows how to be flexible and restrained.
So, stop proving something, call and communicate with her, at least for a while. Take a second job, start going to the gym, try to attract attention to yourself in any way.
This will be a signal that important changes are taking place in your life and you are not worried about parting. Jealousy will probably play in her. And here the main thing is that she does not take offense and does not see a clear rival, but begins to show interest in you and take the first step. And now, if she also wants to be with you together, then the chances of renewing the relationship are great.
Probably, these several ways will help to restore and maintain the old relationship. However, remember that the habit of stability, fear of sudden changes and new disappointments can be drawn to the former. And the desire to return the girl is nothing more than just nostalgia for a warm relationship, fantasy and obsessive desire. We hope that the article was interesting for the girls as well.
