Every relationship has a chance to be long and happy. How to understand that a relationship with a loved one has reached an impasse, which means that it has ceased to develop? Relationship building is a task that cannot be accomplished alone. It's like dancing: learning to dance the waltz alone is unrealistic. Both partners need to work on the relationship in order to give a chance to their development. But everyone knows this and you are right.
- Signs that the relationship is at an impasse
- First sign. There is more confusion than clarity in your relationship.
- Second sign. The first attraction did not lead to a strong bond
- Third sign. You have a growing desire for privacy and more personal time.
- Fourth sign. You work hard to improve your relationship, and your partner makes no effort.
- Fifth sign. Time has shown a mismatch between your life priorities and goals
- Sixth sign. Have you noticed an increase in the incidence of cheating?
- Seventh sign. You are tortured by your partner's jealousy
- Eighth sign. You put your own needs and ambitions down a notch and focused on your partner
- Ninth sign. You feel that you cannot be "yourself" with your partner
- Tenth sign. Increasingly, you have doubts about the continuation of your relationship.
Signs that the relationship is at an impasse
First sign. There is more confusion than clarity in your relationship.
Time goes by ... it's been a long time since you started dating. And your man does not offer anything specific. Although time was supposed to bring important, welcome information to your union. You feel that IT is like a red flag, and the relationship is getting more and more confused, there is no certainty - a dead end.
What to do. See the future together. Try to imagine your relationship for five, ten, twenty years ahead, clearly and clearly. Make plans for the future. It is very important to consider what lies ahead and, thus, mutually accept responsibility for your life together.
Second sign. The first attraction did not lead to a strong bond
When two people meet each other, then at the first stage, attraction is based on external qualities - a beautiful picture, and not on the inner world. Nice smile, tall stature, sharp mind, confident demeanor, ease of communication. A novel is like a flame - it quickly flares up due to a strong physical attraction, but quickly goes out. After all, it needs to be nourished with something in order to reach a new level. Maybe staying friends is the best way out?
Third sign. You have a growing desire for privacy and more personal time.
Each person needs an individual space - this is normal and natural. However, if the thoughts that you are striving to spend your free time separate from your loved one more and more often, interests diverge, and personal time has become much more important and attractive than general time, consider this a warning sign. Ask yourself, "How do you really feel about your partner?"
Fourth sign. You work hard to improve your relationship, and your partner makes no effort.
Again, both partners build a healthy union and bring weight, work, love, trust to them, laying the foundation for long-term relationships.
Fifth sign. Time has shown a mismatch between your life priorities and goals
People do this one way or another because of their inner beliefs and values. Therefore, realistically assess the fact whether the desires, behavior, and beliefs of your partner correspond to your life positions. Are compromises possible in the future?
These include promotion, further education, personal development, financial goals. Your chosen one should have a clearly defined plan for achieving them, while he should be in sync with yours.
What to do. Ask yourself, how do you see your standard of living, income level and professional growth in the future? And match it to your partner's goals.
Sixth sign. Have you noticed an increase in the incidence of cheating?
Lying destroys an important component of any relationship - trust. The presence of lies, understatement, secrets and secrets from each other is a clear marker of the extinction of a relationship. This is the beginning of the end.
Seventh sign. You are tortured by your partner's jealousy
Not all relationships are capable of surviving jealousy, possessiveness, and over-control. "She's only mine." So, insecurity, jealousy, fear of losing another, losing love shows one thing - partners have not built a solid emotional foundation.
What to do. To keep a person - you need to give him the right to freedom.
Eighth sign. You put your own needs and ambitions down a notch and focused on your partner
Dear ones, this kind of imbalance will eventually make you feel resentful. A healthy relationship requires equality; no one should assert themselves at the expense of another.
Ninth sign. You feel that you cannot be "yourself" with your partner
Trying to change or hide your true self will only further confuse the relationship. After all, there is nothing better for happiness than being yourself. We get to know each other and become interesting to our chosen one with all the advantages and disadvantages.
What to do. In healthy relationships, partners recognize that there are no perfect people. Try to fully open up to each other, without necessarily being the most beautiful and attractive. Every woman has her own flavor and originality. Appreciate, love yourself a little more, you are alone.
Tenth sign. Increasingly, you have doubts about the continuation of your relationship.
It's okay if you have doubts and questions about the long-term prospects of your union. However, don't ignore the warning signs, especially if similar thoughts are coming up more and more. I wish you happiness, love, interesting and rich relationships. Text: trends.desigusxpro.com/en/, photo: Getty Images.
