Certain categories of guys can be terribly intrusive. They pursue everywhere, call with or without reason. Such obsession is annoying. It would seem that everything is simple, you can openly tell him about it right to his face. But NOT every woman can do this. And young people are not always understanding.
Obsessive Boy Categories
In order to culturally send a guy off, you must first determine which category he belongs to. As a rule, they are divided into the following:
- - just an annoying stranger;
- - an acquaintance who shows sympathy;
- - a friend who suddenly has feelings;
- - a former gentleman who wants to be together again.
How to turn off a guy: phrases and methods
1). If the gentleman is unfamiliar to you, it's as easy as shelling pears. Make yourself hard to touch. Better yet, inform that you are married, you have children and loans. Do not try to flirt, he may think that you are joking. Therefore, you need to speak dryly and without a smile. Usually, girls who are serious and angry are no longer interested.
If the new gentleman is not far behind, you can say that you are a hysterical psychopath, and in the past a man who underwent gender reassignment surgery. Chances are, the obsessive guy will be in shocked, but quickly hit the road.
2). In the second case, simply Noshould be enough. After all, this person is familiar, his refusal, of course, will upset him, but it is better to tell the truth so that he does not indulge himself with hopes.
3). The hardest part will be upsetting your friend. Here you will need to prepare a detailed conversation, preferably somewhere in a cafe or in a park. The guy will need to popularly explain that you are friends and cannot perceive him differently. That they got used to him as a brother. And we would not want to lose this relationship. It must be said in the face that friendship is the only thing that can happen between you. If he can survive the rejection, he will call later.
4). The latter category is usually the most common. Guys first break up, and then, comparing with other girls, they realize that they broke the relationship in vain. Such guys need to be nipped in the bud, and never return to these relationships.
Better to say: “I have cooled down for a long time, I have a boyfriend whom I love very much! And the point. "
Of course, this may not always work. And the suitor will most likely try to get everything back. The main thing here is to show coldness and indifference.
Politely refuse offers from obsessive gentlemen. Refer to the fact that there is no time, you need to pick up the child from the kindergarten, or simply because of fatigue. If all else fails, you can go for a little trick. Men really don't like talking about money. You can ask about your salary or ask to buy the gold ring you've been dreaming about for a long time.
In fact, there are a lot of ways and phrases to kick a guy off. The main thing is not to be silent if the man does not like it. Otherwise, silence can be regarded as consent.
