Men always strive to seem strong, courageous and calm, but even they can be pissed off, because everyone has weak points, topics that he does not want to talk about, words that he does not want to hear. Here are the phrases you need to forget so as not to quarrel with your loved one.
1. "I don't like your mom ..."
Parents are sacred, you cannot criticize them. Even if the guy himself is not too happy with the actions of his parents, he may show disagreement, and you may not. To avoid conflicts, let your loved one solve family problems on their own.
2. "Your friend is a very interesting guy"
Never flirt with his friends, don't give them hopes and advances. Even if one of his friends is no longer subtly hinting at a desire to get to know you better, it is better to make it as polite and calm as possible to make it clear that he has no chance at all. If his friend has gone very far, literally does not give a pass, then it is worth talking about this with your lover. However, if you can solve the problem yourself, it is better to do so.
3. "I cheated on my ex"
Don't tell him about your cheating in a past relationship. Even if there were reasons for such an act, it should not be voiced. This will lead to unnecessary suspicion. Perhaps the guy decides to establish total control over you, or even proposes to part. Nothing spoils a relationship like constant jealousy.
4. "I'm leaving you"
Don't threaten to break up unless you're really going to end the relationship. Sometimes the quarrel goes really far and, losing your temper, you can give out something like "why do I need you like that, I deserve better." After that, you can ask for forgiveness at least a hundred times, but he will not forget this phrase. The man will be sure that you do not value the relationship, since you can so easily abandon it.
5. "That guy's got a gorgeous figure!"
Sometimes it is not necessary to say it out loud, an eloquent glance may be enough. Admiration for another man, especially if it is not in favor of your loved one, will cause jealousy and deeply hurt feelings. It is possible that he will ask the question: “Since she does not consider me the best, why is she with me? Maybe she has selfish motives? "
Even the strongest relationships are not without conflict. But if you avoid these phrases, many of them won't even start.
